Hello
everyone...just a quick note to let you know, moving forward, I will not be
posting on this blog. The official
website for Artistically Speaking Out Against Bullying is starting to come
together nicely and has its own blog option.
Please accept my invitation to visit our website; www.asoab.org . Celebrate with us as we grow; feel free to
share your thoughts. With heartfelt appreciation for your continued support and interest...Carleana De Kelver; CSC-CPLC – Founder/Executive
Director of ASOAB
Saturday, 29 September 2012
Wednesday, 29 August 2012
On the move...
soon Artistically Speaking Out Against Bullying's (ASOAB) website will be the sole source for ASOAB updates.
Please take the time to visit us at www.asoab.org
Carleana De Kelver
Executive Director/Founder
Please take the time to visit us at www.asoab.org
Carleana De Kelver
Executive Director/Founder
Tuesday, 7 August 2012
Artistically Speaking Out Against Bullying (ASOAB) in motion....
Just a
very quick update~
www.asoab.org
519-859-1143
asoab.blogspot.com
I may
have been away attaining new certifications and gaining to experiences but, I
certainly was not idle.
In June,
I was in California where I attained my Soul Coachingr accreditation. An amazing skill and very much in line with
the work I do professionally, but more importantly with those impacted by
bullying. July, I travelled to Spain in
order to take my Camino de Santiago de Compostella. If you’re interested in learning more about
my experience visit http://carleana-csc.blogspot.ca/ You’re welcome
to share this with others too.
While I was away, I learned ASOAB’s nomination for
the Innovation Community Pillar Award did not make the finals. While that is unfortunate news for us, the
fact remains we were nominated and that is amazing. Congratulations to the finalist and best of
luck in November.
Also, ASOAB
has officially become a registered non-profit organization. This gain will allow us to move further ahead
in our plans. We’ve had so many
organizations and people interested in what we do, so this should open more
doors. The next administrative step will
to apply for registered charity status; but one step at a time.
I continue to meet with organizations that are very
interested in putting the ASOAB program in their format. It is my hope that ASOAB will soon be running
a full fall program as well as several workshops over the next few months.
From a community perspective we’ve had a few personal donations
come in which I’ll share more about later.
As well, I had responded to a news paper article on another child loss to
suicide related to bullying, and I submitted my thoughts. I have received
positive feedback as well; it has opened some amazing new doors for us.
Hopefully you are able to open this Block Parent link http://www.thecommunityfocus.com/
as my response was included in their current issue of "The Community
Focus" on page 12.
It is also my goal to have our first newsletter prepared and
published by the first of September.
If you have any questions or concerns; or would like more information
about ASOAB, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Carleana De Kelver CSC; CPLC
Artistically Speaking Out Against
Bullying
Founder/Executive Director/Presidentwww.asoab.org
519-859-1143
Thursday, 14 June 2012
Good day everyone....
I just wanted to take this opportunity to share some exciting news. I have been nominated for a Pillar Community Innovation Award (http://www.pillarnonprofit.ca/) for the program, Artistically Speaking Out Against Bullying (ASOAB). I wanted to not only express my appreciation to those who’ve nominated me but also extend my sincerest thank you to the families who attended and my heartfelt thanks to those who continue to work hard with me at ASOAB; Genevieve, Katharina, Chelsea, Angela, and Diana.
Also, Monday evening I joined Matthew Ninabar and his team from High Rise Studio (www.highrisestudio.ca) to film a short documentary on two families' experience dealing with school bullying and how it was (or was not) handled. As soon as this project is complete, it will be posted on our website www.asoab.org
Starting next week I will be away for seven weeks. First I will be in San Luis Obispo California to ascertain my Soul Coaching accreditation under Denise Linn (www.deniselinn.com). From there, I am off to Spain on my Camino de Santiago de Compostella (www.caminoways.com). These skills will enhance the work I do with children, youth and their families at ASOAB and in my personal business.
At this time, I would like to remind you to visit ASOAB’s website www.asoab.org It is my goal to have everything centralize on our website in the very near future including this blog.
ASOAB offers presentations, speaking engagements and workshops too. As always, if you have any questions and/or concerns please feel free to leave a comment or email me at carleana@asoab.org.
~Carleana
"It is easier to build up a child, than it is to repair and adult. Choose your words and actions wisely."
I just wanted to take this opportunity to share some exciting news. I have been nominated for a Pillar Community Innovation Award (http://www.pillarnonprofit.ca/) for the program, Artistically Speaking Out Against Bullying (ASOAB). I wanted to not only express my appreciation to those who’ve nominated me but also extend my sincerest thank you to the families who attended and my heartfelt thanks to those who continue to work hard with me at ASOAB; Genevieve, Katharina, Chelsea, Angela, and Diana.
Also, Monday evening I joined Matthew Ninabar and his team from High Rise Studio (www.highrisestudio.ca) to film a short documentary on two families' experience dealing with school bullying and how it was (or was not) handled. As soon as this project is complete, it will be posted on our website www.asoab.org
Starting next week I will be away for seven weeks. First I will be in San Luis Obispo California to ascertain my Soul Coaching accreditation under Denise Linn (www.deniselinn.com). From there, I am off to Spain on my Camino de Santiago de Compostella (www.caminoways.com). These skills will enhance the work I do with children, youth and their families at ASOAB and in my personal business.
At this time, I would like to remind you to visit ASOAB’s website www.asoab.org It is my goal to have everything centralize on our website in the very near future including this blog.
ASOAB offers presentations, speaking engagements and workshops too. As always, if you have any questions and/or concerns please feel free to leave a comment or email me at carleana@asoab.org.
~Carleana
"It is easier to build up a child, than it is to repair and adult. Choose your words and actions wisely."
Wednesday, 23 May 2012
Suicide and tougher bullying laws
A couple days ago
an article from the Sarnia Observer was sent to me. Since then I received a couple more stories
from the same community. Rightfully so,
parents and students demonstrated at the education centre office and city
hall. As the story goes, in the past two
years the community has lost 10 children/youth to suicide as a result of
unaddressed bullying. I read these
articles and feel the frustration this community is feeling; so I submitted my
thoughts. http://www.theobserver.ca/2012/05/23/we-need-nurtured-children-not-more-bullying-laws. In
Ontario we already have a lot of legislation in place. What we are missing is effective and efficient
enforcement of these laws, policies, etc and any means of accountability when these
are not enforced. While we sit back, protest
and wait for new laws (bill
13 & 14 for example) our
children are killing themselves. When we
will realize, if we want change; we must be that change. You can’t legislate for someone to protect
another. Either they get it and they do
it or they don’t. We do not have to buy
into all the rhetoric that says ‘the system’ is better than the
individual. I am not saying for a single
moment that we not advocate for our children, but we must also teach our
children to advocate for themselves.
Generally speaking a child that feels worthy is less likely to bully or
be bullied. No school or law can inspire
self worth that starts with the people who genuinely care about another. Parents don’t be bullied into thinking you’re
not good enough. 99% of what children
want and need...your time, love, encouragement and acceptance. If your child isn’t important to you, they
will ask, “Who am I important too; who cares about me?” And soon they won’t care about them self or
anyone or anything...they’ll feel as though they have nothing to lose. Celebrate life with your child everyday they
are with you......
Tuesday, 22 May 2012
Hunger Games vs BULLY
May has been a very interesting month, so far, for ASOAB. Several new opportunities are being explored. Check back regularly for updates. Remember if you have any questions or are looking for assistance in handling a bullying related issue, do not hestitate to contact Carleana at carleana@asoab.org How many of you got a chance to see the movie BULLY? How many took in the box office 'hit' "The Hunger Games"? Were your children part of the Ontario education group that were taken out of school on a 'field trip' to see "The Hunger Games" but not "BULLY"? You may (or may not) be surprise to learn what the education system's response was to allowing one movie over the other.....
Wednesday, 16 May 2012
Artistically Speaking Out Against Bullying (ASOAB) is a holistic and innovated program designed to address bullying on many levels!
Our uniquely inspired programs help participants rediscover their self confidence and value. When people feel good about them self, they are less likely to engage in behaviours that are harmful in nature. These behaviours include, but are not limited to bullying and being bullied. While some programs within ASOAB lend them self to shorter periods of duration, the ultimate goal is to create an environment where participants and their families feel safe to speak freely, and without judgement. It takes time to establish a relationship based on mutual trust, compassion and growth. For this reason, ASOAB programs are designed to run a year (Sept/June). During that year, the goal is for each participant to not only rediscover a talent they have but also feel inspired and confident in their overall abilities. At the end of the program, participants will be given the opportunity to exhibit their work. Events such as art showings and performances will not only help ASOAB raise awareness for positive change but it will also raise funds to keep ASOAB sustainable. More importantly, it provides the participants with a chance to show case their pieces/talent. This becomes an exciting celebration for everyone, including our community.
ASOAB does offer a few short term programs as well. These programs are designed to introduce participants to ASOAB and the different disciplines available. Shorter programs are offered in a variety of ways, such as: half, three quarter or full hour sessions once a week for six to eight weeks; depending on the discipline. These sessions are for those interested in opportunities based on a more relaxed and social environment. Shorter sessions can also be added to any Bullying Presentation. In each of these cases, while self appreciation and rediscovering of self value remains the priority, they do not tend to create the same ‘safe’ environment that allows for deeper self rediscovery; as such they do not conclude with a celebration or showing.
ASOAB also offers workshops and presentations to groups and organizations. Bullying is not just about peer bullying between children and/or youth. The truth is it happens everywhere, within all age groups. Our presentations are designed to explain what bullying is vs. conflict, why it happens and what we can do about it. We will look at current and pending legislation, policies and procedures. You’re encouraged to learn what your rights and responsibilities are as well as those of your loved ones such as your children. We’ll explore how important relationships are in the bullying web and discover what roadblocks are real and which are not, when trying to address bullying. These presentations are both informative and interactive. While Bullying is very serious, the presentations are designed to be hopeful and helpful rather than empty and blame based. When you leave an ASOAB presentation, it is our goal that you’ll feel inspired to create a positive change in your environment however big or small that is.
For more information about participating in a program or organizing a presentation/workshop, please contact Carleana at carleana@asoab.org
Our uniquely inspired programs help participants rediscover their self confidence and value. When people feel good about them self, they are less likely to engage in behaviours that are harmful in nature. These behaviours include, but are not limited to bullying and being bullied. While some programs within ASOAB lend them self to shorter periods of duration, the ultimate goal is to create an environment where participants and their families feel safe to speak freely, and without judgement. It takes time to establish a relationship based on mutual trust, compassion and growth. For this reason, ASOAB programs are designed to run a year (Sept/June). During that year, the goal is for each participant to not only rediscover a talent they have but also feel inspired and confident in their overall abilities. At the end of the program, participants will be given the opportunity to exhibit their work. Events such as art showings and performances will not only help ASOAB raise awareness for positive change but it will also raise funds to keep ASOAB sustainable. More importantly, it provides the participants with a chance to show case their pieces/talent. This becomes an exciting celebration for everyone, including our community.
ASOAB does offer a few short term programs as well. These programs are designed to introduce participants to ASOAB and the different disciplines available. Shorter programs are offered in a variety of ways, such as: half, three quarter or full hour sessions once a week for six to eight weeks; depending on the discipline. These sessions are for those interested in opportunities based on a more relaxed and social environment. Shorter sessions can also be added to any Bullying Presentation. In each of these cases, while self appreciation and rediscovering of self value remains the priority, they do not tend to create the same ‘safe’ environment that allows for deeper self rediscovery; as such they do not conclude with a celebration or showing.
ASOAB also offers workshops and presentations to groups and organizations. Bullying is not just about peer bullying between children and/or youth. The truth is it happens everywhere, within all age groups. Our presentations are designed to explain what bullying is vs. conflict, why it happens and what we can do about it. We will look at current and pending legislation, policies and procedures. You’re encouraged to learn what your rights and responsibilities are as well as those of your loved ones such as your children. We’ll explore how important relationships are in the bullying web and discover what roadblocks are real and which are not, when trying to address bullying. These presentations are both informative and interactive. While Bullying is very serious, the presentations are designed to be hopeful and helpful rather than empty and blame based. When you leave an ASOAB presentation, it is our goal that you’ll feel inspired to create a positive change in your environment however big or small that is.
For more information about participating in a program or organizing a presentation/workshop, please contact Carleana at carleana@asoab.org
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